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March 6, 2017 at 4:23 pm

In the lead up to International Women’s Day, Arab and Muslim women took to Twitter to combat misogynistic attributes of their communities in a hashtag #DearSister, started by Egyptian-American journalist Mona Eltahawy. Many of the girls and women used the hashtag as an opportunity to bring light to their personal stories. Others took a more structural approach, reflecting on their observations of those around them.

“To be honest, when I first tweeted it out, I did it almost as a joke,” Eltahawy told the BBC. “For me the most important thing is that #DearSister is a platform for Muslim women and girls – somewhere they get the space to speak, and everyone must listen.”

The hashtag included some very important points, that are largely under-addressed, or even tabooed. Marriage, education, and harassment were all discussed.

Siyane A. Bari wrote about how women are encouraged to under achieve:

While Azadeh Akbari tweeted about a the common misconceptions amongst men and the culture of blame:

Women bravely opened up about the threats they’ve received:

They also highlighted the way they are judged by the way they dressed; debugging a famous parallel that compared women to covered lollipops.

There were many who took to the hashtag to even address contradictions in culture versus Islamic teachings. Both Khadija and Aisha are wives of the Prophet Muhammed (peace be upon him) and both have played very prominent roles in early Islamic history and were known for their contributions to the Islamic community, their strength of character and their self-empowerment.

However, this did not go without controversy. Some men were worried that this trend would put Islam in a bad light.

There were also men who encouraged and supported their female counterparts in raising awareness and stood in solidarity.

Most importantly, the women refused to allow Islamophobes hijack the hashtag.